
Toula Wootan
Caring for a loved one can be physically, emotionally and spiritually exhausting. The word I have used to describe how I’ve felt in the past is depleted — nothing left to give. Some refer to it as caregiver burnout.
Have you ever felt like this? If so, you are certainly not alone. It’s so very common. Here are a few symptoms to let you know if you are experiencing caregiver burnout:
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Overreacting to minor nuisances
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Feeling constantly exhausted
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Losing interest in work
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Decrease in productivity at work
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Withdrawing from social contacts
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Increasing use of alcohol or stimulants
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Change in eating patterns
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Change in sleeping patterns
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Increasing use of medications for sleeplessness, anxiety or depression
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Inability to relax
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Scattered thinking
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Feeling increasingly resentful
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Being short-tempered with care recipient frequently
Do you see yourself in the above? If so, perhaps it’s time to take a step back, or perhaps to take a real time-out.
How, you say? If you don’t have family or friends who can step in, there are many support services to help you do this. Many assisted living facilities offer respite, a short-term stay. There are also many adult day care centers in our area, and we have many companion/sitter agencies. Perhaps you qualify for Aging True — they have a team of volunteers who can sit with your loved one occasionally.
Whatever it takes, take a break so you can rest, do something for yourself, renew your perspective and refresh. It’s essential. I like the saying, “You can’t pour from an empty cup.”
I am the primary caregiver for both of my parents and work full-time, leading caregiving initiatives! I keep these eight things in mind to help me: sunshine, fresh air, exercise, prayer, water, diet, rest and laughter. Do they resonate with you? They are simple but make a big difference. So does having fun with friends! Don’t forget that.
I hope these help you. As always, thank you for caring.

Toula Wootan
Toula’s Tips for Caregivers, can now be hear on Spreaker.com/user/toulastipsforcaregivers or from Toula’s website at ToulasTipsforCaregivers.com. You can email Toula at toulastips@gmail.com
Thank you Toula for all you do for Caregivers in Jacksonville and all over the country!

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I am getting ready to embark on a new road, (one that is not virtual as was my road to Spokane); I look ahead with anticipation and excitement because I am creating a life to love after caregiving ends through writing, radio, travel and advocacy.
While attending the American Society on Aging Conference in Washington, D.C., I was struck by not only the information that delivered at the conference, but the commitment of the professionals in attendance. Another added benefit was the chance to connect with quite a number of social networking friends, people who I have collaborated with of the years online, yet have never had the opportunity to meet in person. I was fortunate to be able to attend this event.
You see, caregiving was just a small portion of our life together. Time wise, eleven years together, pales in comparison in relation to the six months of intensive caregiving that transpired in our relationship. However those six months of intensive caregiving takes a relationship to new heights, new destinations and at least in our case, a deeper love and commitment that is impossible to replace. I marvel, and often wonder about couples who have been together 30, 40, 50 years then suddenly find themselves in the role of a family caregiver.












