The longest journey you’ll ever take is from the head to the heart. Regina Rosenthal
As we come to the end of the 5th week of palliative radiation treatments, the word ‘journey’ keeps resonating with me. Our recent journey with Hospice of Broward County proved to be bumpy; we’ve moved on from that bumpy road and have brought in new ‘friends’ to help us continue on with our journey, we’re hoping for smooth sailing as we forge ahead on our ‘new’ path.
There are so many components when planning a journey. GPS devices have become the fad; some might even spread out an old fashion map on their kitchen table to highlight the path of the journey. Planning a Caregiving journey is a little more difficult than planning a road trip, or is it?
When we are planning a journey, there is usually someone who is in charge, a leader, guide, pilot, etc. All those fancy electronic devices that help plan a journey, goes for not if there is not a leader orchestrating the plan. The lesson that I’ve learned during our recent Caregiving journey is that I’m the co-pilot, ‘TLO’ is the pilot. ‘TLO’ is the one going through the radiation treatments, ‘TLO’ is the one taking the medicine…’TLO’ is the one that has the cancer inside of his body. For me to assume that I know how he feels, pales in comparison to his reality of his health and how he feels.
There is no doubt that we are both on this journey together; we share in the emotions, we share in the joy and we share in the sorrow during this journey. We both know that there is a fork in the road that lies ahead of us that no Map or GPS will detect. We also know that trying to dodge that fork in the road will be unavoidable. The ‘funny’ thing about that fork in the road is that at some point in our life, each one of us will find its path and end up at the same destination. As Caregivers, we try to pave the road so that when that fork does arrive, there is a gentle breeze at our back. Caregiving is often filled with so many raw emotions that sometimes we forget that we are on a beautiful journey together. That’s why sometimes the longest journey that we will ever take is from the head to the heart.
While we know that fork in the road will take us on a different path, we understand that at some point, we will end up at the same destination. For now, we will continue on our journey together as pilot and copilot creating, and enjoy, that gentle breeze at our back that no map or GPS device can locate for us.
Thank You for being our copilot’s; we are pleased that you are on this journey with us helping us create that gentle breeze at our back!
You see…We might have cancer, but Cancer does not have us!
Christopher MacLellan is a Certified Senior Advisor, the coordinator of senior services for SunServe Social Services and the host of ‘Be A Healthy Caregiver’ on Blog Talk Radio. ©ThePurpleJacket
‘Be A Healthy Caregiver’ is on hiatus until January 2014 while ‘TLO’ is undergoing radiation treatments. To listen to archived episodes of our show, simply click here!
- The Call For Hospice (thepurplejacket.com)
- 28th Radiation Treatment Complete. Last and FINAL treatment! In Remission!! (albeefine.com)
- Sea salt and baking soda, best all natural remedy for curing radiation exposure and cancer (naturalcuresnotmedicine.com)
- What’s On Your Refrigerator? (thepurplejacket.com)
- On Being An Advocate (thepurplejacket.com)
- Hypofractionation of radiation therapy in treatment of localized prostate cancer (prostatecancerinfolink.net)
- Never Alone (thepurplejacket.com)