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Discharged!


We’ve been discharged from the hospital!

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I’ll be back later today on ‘The Purple Jacket’ with further details.

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Slumber Party At The Hospital!


As the day progressed from our visit to the Emergency Room early this morning, ‘The Little One’ was admitted to the cardiac unit at North Broward Hospital late this afternoon. He is resting peacefully now!

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We’ve been caught up in the emotion of the day, but we know that we are in a safe place this evening. The last week or so at home has been quite stressful for both of us as TLO’s health has been a challenge. New areas of pain overshadowed by different kinds of pain. A new experience?

As the Caregiver, I want to take away his pain. I am confident that all Caregivers understand this. As Caregivers, we sit back, take a deep breath and want our secret powers from our Caregiving Cape to make everything better… Whoosh

But the cold hard facts are that we all all human!

A slumber party is in order this evening; there will not be any pillow fights and there will be no popcorn as well. The slumber party may not take away the pain, but the slumber party will certainly p20130918-214639.jpgprovide the much needed comfort that we seek during our Caregiving journey.

Finding comfort is one of the common denominator in Caregiving. We all want it, we all strive for it, but we don’t know how to find it when we are in the midst of our journey.

Tonight I am finding my comfort zone by having a slumber party at the hospital. There is no comfort in going home to an empty house! Heck, I might even ring that call bell.

You see… We might have cancer, but cancer does not have us!

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Emergency Room


We’ve made a trip to the emergency room today as ‘The Little One’ experienced a bad spell of laborious breathing through the night and early this morning.

He has been fearful of this trip, but he insisted on coming to the emergency room this morning. The recent struggles with the esophagus and tumor has produced quite a bit of discomfort for him this week. Now a week into his steroid medication without any outward signs of relief; we are where we are supposed to be today.

As I (we) sit here waiting and worrying, our best source of comfort comes from our faith, our family, and our friends. For me, I find relief in writing.

We don’t know what is ahead of us today, but in essence, do any of us? Sure our schedules are filled with appointments, telephone calls and meetings. But all those things can wait because when you get right down to it, there is nothing more important in life than being present to the one you love.

Today we are going to try to be as calm as an ocean breeze!

You see… we might have cancer, but cancer does not have us!

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Caring For A Loved One After Hip Replacement Surgery


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Today I am pleased to welcome  guest blogger, Julian Hills from image001

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People typically have hip replacement surgery because their daily lives have been interrupted by their painful ailments. When joint deterioration or arthritis gets bad, it makes it incredibly difficult for the patient to walk and accomplish tasks that were once easy.

If a loved one needs hip replacement surgery, you will want them to have that second chance to live full lives. But make sure the patient talks to the surgeon about which type of implant will be used. That’s important because some manufacturers – including Stryker and Wright Medical — have had problems with some of their hip device products.

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The recovery period is an important part of hip replacement surgery. That’s where you come in as a caregiver. In the beginning, especially, they will lean on you heavily (sometimes literally).

Be prepared to drive, since doctors typically want a patient to wait at least six weeks before driving. You will need to take the patient to follow-up appointments, to physical therapy and to get their medications. But driving them to and from appointments is just the beginning.

The best way to handle your loved one’s recovery after their surgery is to plan as much as you can before the procedure. It’s important to know what to expect in the weeks following hip replacement.

Understand the Process of Recovery

The recovery process is delicate and will require the patient’s full attention to keep the recovery on track.

One of the most important parts of the recovery process is preventing dislocation (the ball popping out of the socket). Recovering patients should not bend beyond 90 degrees at the hip.

It is also important to keep the wound dry until the staples are removed, which may not happen for two weeks.  Pain will also be an issue. Manage the pain by keeping the proper amount of pain medication on hand, and use it as directed. If it’s not working, they may need a new medication.

Swelling is normal after surgery. Communicate with the patient, however, to make sure the swelling and pain does not get too severe.

Blood clots could become a concern, so you and the patient should stay in touch with the doctor to make sure you have proper medication and that the patient is performing the proper light exercise.

Create a Comfortable Living Environment

The recovering patient should be 100 percent focused on their personal medical needs, therefore their home should be set up for comfort and convenience as much as possible.

If you are the primary caregiver, it’s a smart idea to have another relative, friend or neighbor on hand occasionally to help you out. A hospital social worker can help you find a health care professional, if needed.

The everyday demands of life may make it hard to be on duty 24 hours a day. There are some simple preparations you can make in case you’re not able to be at home:

  • Stock up on nonperishable foods.
  • Cook meals that can be frozen and easily warmed up.
  • If the patient lives in a two-story house, make a bed downstairs and put commonly used items within arm’s reach, including a phone.

You and the patient should be aware of the types of things they will be able to do, and what they won’t. Their physical therapist will help you with this. Knowing what to expect will reduce stress for both of you.

Julian Hills is a content writer and blogger for Drugwatch.com. His journalism career has taken him from newspapers to local television news stations and even a 24-hour cable network in the Southeast. Julian is a graduate of Florida State University.

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Hug A Caregiver Day!


Caregiving can sometimes be hard:

But Hugging a Caregiver is easy!

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Tuesday’s  at 1:00 pm (EST) and Thursday’s at 8:00 pm!

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Caregivers And Their Relationships!


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On Thursday September 5th, at 8:00pm (EST) we welcome, the Wisdom of Matt Ghezzi, MS, LMHC, ACHT.

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Thursday September 5th, at 8:00pm (EST) 

Caregivers and their Relationships!

Matt Ghezzi is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor in the state of Florida, and is certified as an Advanced Clinical Heart-Centered Hypnotherapist and an expert in the field of Chakra.  On Thursday’s show, we are going to focus on Caregivers and their relationship.  We will take a look at the  Victim Triangle and how that impacts not only the Caregiving relationship, but the relationships outside the caretaker, such as family, health care professionals, social workers, hospice care, colleagues etc.   Dr. Ghezzi will talk about hypnotherapy and the subconscious and how that works in our relationships as well as grief and loss.     Dr. Ghezzi will lead us in a discussion on how to capture  positive energy in all our relationships so that we can  ‘Be A Healthy Caregiver!’

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Hug A Caregiver Day!


Caregiving can sometimes be hard:

But Hugging a Caregiver is easy!

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Tuesday’s  at 1:00 pm (EST) and Thursday’s at 8:00 pm!

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Hug A Caregiver Day!


Caregiving can sometimes be hard:

But Hugging a Caregiver is easy!

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Tuesday’s  at 1:00 pm (EST) and Thursday’s at 8:00 pm!

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All of our episodes of ‘Be A Healthy Caregiver’ are archived for your listening convenience by clicking here! 

 

 

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Dementia and Rummage Bags: Yes!


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Join me on Tuesday August 13th at 1:00 pm on ‘Be A Healthy Caregiver’ on Blog Talk Radio, as we visit Seth Gillman and  Kaitlyn Henderson from Passages Hospice.  Passages Hospice has developed this wonderful program simply called ‘Rummage Bags’ to help dementia patients (and their caregivers) cope!    Whether you are a man or a woman, we’ve all had the experience of rummaging through a bag, a box, a pocket, a drawer, looking for the elusive item that just seems to be out of our reach. Yet when we find what we are looking for, there is that moment of elation!  To listen to our show live, simply click here! 

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We will have a delightful conversation on Tuesday about this terrific program, while chatting about the great work Passages Hospice does in many communities throughout the Midwest. We will also have some terrific tips for Caregivers who are caring for a loved one with dementia.   Through our conversation with Seth and Kaitlyn, we will all learn how to ‘Be A Healthy Caregiver!’ 

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Visit Passages Hospice online by clicking here! 

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Caregiving Has No Borders!


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Join us on Thursday August 1st at 8:00 pm (EST) for ‘Be A Healthy Caregiver’ as we cross the Canadian border to visit with best-selling author, Rick Lauber from Edmonton, Alberta, Canada!   To listen to our show live, simply click here!

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Rick’s book Caregivers Guide For Canadians’ is masterful and great read, no matter what side of the border you live. Our conversation on Thursday will focus on Rick’s book, as well as how do we best care, for the Caregiver.

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 There are no geographical boundaries when it comes to Caregiving. While there are difference in health care between Canada and the United States, there are plenty of commonalities with Caregivers in our two countries. On Thursday’s show, we will discuss many of these important issues as well as how Rick’s Caregiving, led to his book, ‘Caregivers Guide For Canadians.’  We will be taking your calls as well during our second segment! Your questions are welcome  during the second segment of the show at 646.487.3716

From our conversation with Rick, we will all learn how to ‘Be A Healthy Caregiver.’

To visit Rick online, simply click here! 

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